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Kevin McQuaid's avatar

I disengaged from Facebook / Instagram over 2 years ago and the peace it has bought me is immense. The most influential & interesting people are more engaged with having an experience in the moment, as opposed to documenting it as it happens. The intrinsic reward of being in the moment to fully immerse themselves in what they are doing. Yes, this may mean having to rely on a failing memory to relive what we once enjoyed - but is that such a bad thing. Who really loses out in this instance. By focusing on documenting to share on social media, users are generating revenue for the companies, who invest the money in keeping eyeballs, leading to the manipulation of said users in a quite dark and uncomfortable fashion (and this far from the more utilitarian intentions of the founders of the internet)

Are we that much better off for being informed about trends all over the world? Places to visit? Things to discover? Or have we got lazy and spoilt the beauty of self discovery? Personally I think we have fed into a culture of entitlement in a "You can and should have it all" which has led to a lack of engagement and a disassociation from the real world. Influencers (and the use of them) is an ugly by-product of this.

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W Jason Griffith's avatar

I left Facebook 6 years ago, and for some reason my life has been better for it. It has forced me to stay in regular touch with friends all over the country, via phone or texts.

A surprising benefit over the years is that I’ve been to maintain a level of mystery in my life, whereas people who weren’t “true” friends heard about my adventures moving from SC to CA and now NJ, via word of mouth, versus stalking me on Facebook. Being a late bloomer, there is a level of satisfaction that is genuine, that I wish I could put in words.

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