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Nacho's avatar

Ralph's comment on baseball reminded me of my own son's journey. He played soccer at a very high level, from about the same age, up through travel and then the ODP program. He was 17 and came home after a tournament and said he was done. It wasn't fun for him anymore, he didn't love the game. Same feelings, same struggle, same discussion with his coaches. Walked cleanly away from the game, posters down, tv off. Done. Cold turkey. Fast forward nearly 10 years to today. He causally mentioned that he's playing in soccer league for his department. I asked him why he started to play again and he said that he always loved the game, he just decided he didn't like the competition. He needed the time to figure out what it was that was important and he can play the game now, no consequences, no need to worry about the future, just because it gave him joy and that's what mattered to him.

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dan hawes's avatar

Here's a couple from me.

1) Swaddling.

2) Leave your baby cry out for 10 minute periods.

3) Ebay for clothes. Babies don't wear out clothes. They grow out of them very quickly.

4) Plenty of time outdoors

5) Romping/Wrestling is fun for all.

6) Exposure to other kids/family/

7) plenty of time with grandparents.

8) let them try plenty of different foods

9) love love love.

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